Until recently, the debate about the existence of the G-spot did not cease until one of the American scientists put an end to various speculations by examining the corpse of an elderly woman. He discovered that the desired erogenous zone is located on the upper wall of the vagina and feels like a nut to the touch. When this point is stimulated, the woman reaches orgasm in a short time, with proper and continuous stimulation, the time is reduced to 10 seconds (in rare cases).
Unfortunately, the G spot has not been fully explored. There are still no answers to some questions: is it present in every woman and if so, can anyone achieve orgasm from its stimulation?
How to start looking for the G spot
Your partner can look for the G-spot, or you can find it yourself. To do this, you need to insert two or three fingers into the vagina, pre-apply a special lubricant on them. After inserting your fingers into the vagina, you should bend them to touch the upper wall.
Ways to stimulate the G-spot
Insert the lubricated fingers into the vagina, with the other hand press lightly on the pubis, the fingers inserted into the vagina should move up and down, while you can pay attention to the clitoris, for sharpness. You can do this without the help of a partner. You can also find the point yourself using a vibrator.
If your partner's penis is naturally bent slightly upwards, then you will have more stimulation-inducing poses, and even the classic missionary is included in the bill. Another simple and effective position is to have the woman on top and the partners facing each other.
What is a live orgasm?
When stimulating the G-spot, a girl can also experience a jet orgasm. During such an orgasm, a specific fluid is released from the girl's vagina. To get exactly such an orgasm, the partner should insert the lubricated fingers and move them up and down the walls of the vagina, this should be done carefully so as not to cause pain. Before that, your partner should help you relax with a massage using massage oil. The girl should lie on her back, bending her knees.
During a jet orgasm, the desire to urinate arises, but this feeling passes quickly and the desired pleasure comes. Still, for your confidence it is recommended to go to the toilet before the procedure.
If the first time you did not manage to experience any kind of orgasm, do not be discouraged, everything has its time. Sometimes girls achieve results only after 2 weeks of training. You just have to learn to relax and trust your partner completely.
Where is the G spot in women and how to find it? These intriguing questions concern almost all modern people. Women want to receive indelible and incomparable sensations caused by the stimulation of this area. Men want to please their partners and at the same time increase their self-esteem as a talented and experienced lover. In this article, we tried to describe in as much detail as possible where to look for this magic point.
The female G point is located on the front wall of the vagina, at a distance of about 3-5 cm from its entrance. However, the range of the location of the point is 1-10 cm. In addition, it is not always located in the center of the wall. Often the point is found on the right or left side.
Finding the G-spot is not so easy, but the result will pay off all your efforts. Most importantly, remember that in a calm state, the mysterious point is hardly noticeable and does not exceed the size of a pea. In a state of excitement, it swells, doubles in size and becomes very palpable. The point or rather the area has a slightly rough surface and somewhat resembles goose bumps or walnut shells, in contrast to the smooth texture of the main part of the vagina.
So let's start looking for the magic point:
- First of all, make every effort to cause strong emotions in your partner. Ideally, try to bring her to orgasm. At the moment before it begins or immediately after it, the point is best investigated.
- The most suitable for research is the position in which the partner lies on his back, and her legs are wide apart. Gently insert two fingers into the vagina, feel the area under the pubic bone itself. Remember at the same time that digital statistics for the location of the G-spot are not an axiom, and for different women the precious area may not be exactly in the same places.
- In almost all the fair sex, this part of the vagina is characterized by reduced sensitivity. Therefore, to detect it, it is often necessary to press quite strongly and actively on the area under study. Ask the woman to suggest which direction you should move.
- If you feel the urge to pee during your search for a partner, you're most likely on the right track. When you press the G-spot, this reaction, along with a feeling of discomfort, appears in many women. Don't worry, these types of sensations disappear very quickly and are replaced by a growing sense of excitement.
- The G spot looks like a small hard lump, no bigger than a pea. Try to grab it with two fingers. Then begin to rhythmically squeeze and unlock the lump, pressing and releasing it, trying to act strongly and at the same time delicately to avoid damaging the sensitive vaginal mucosa.
Everyone around is talking about the G-spot, but few people are talking about other equally important erogenous zones of a woman. If you learn to awaken these points, orgasm will no longer escape from under your nose.
Erogenous zones in women
Many people have heard more than once about the wonderful properties of a special G point on a woman's body, but not many people understand what is hidden behind this name, and very few people know about the existence of at least 3 pointsmore special, the stimulation of which will give a woman particularly pleasant sensations. The same erogenous zones in women are called points A, K, U, that is, the entire "female alphabet" consists of the acronym G-A-K-U.
Let's take a closer look at what these erogenous zones are in a woman's body, where they are located, how to stimulate them and what effect a woman will have from stimulation.
Point G is located on the front wall of the vagina at a depth of 4-5 centimeters from the entrance to the vagina. It is an extremely sensitive area of the vagina, measuring 1. 5 to 2 cm, that contains 600 nerve endings per square millimeter, unlike other areas that contain no more than 30 nerve endings. In other words, stimulating this area will bring 20 times more pleasure. In women, this erogenous zone can be easily stimulated with a finger or a small vibrator that has the right purpose and shape.
Where are the most erogenous zones in women?
Point A
Where is the woman's erogenous zone called point A? You can find this intimate spot in the front of the vagina, between the bladder and the cervix, it is, like the G, an extremely sensitive area measuring 2 to 4 cm. With strong arousal, the tissues surrounding the uterus begin to contract strongly. and the male penis can penetrate her neck by almost 3 centimeters. In addition, this area does not become hypersensitive after orgasm, which makes it possible to prolong the pleasure.
K-point
Point K is located on the back wall of the vagina and stimulation of this point is performed during anal sex, but provided that the wall between the rectum and the vagina is not too thick. Stimulation of this area, unlike the previous two areas, does not give experiences with emotional colors, love and affection for the partner, but gives a particularly sharp and lively orgasm.
U point
What other erogenous zones do women have? The U point is a soft erectile tissue, also permeated with nerve endings to a greater extent than the surrounding tissue. It can be found in the vestibule of the urethra. During the stimulation of the U point, a strong sexual desire and a desire to urinate appear at the same time. In this case, the impact is not only on the U point, but also on the Skene glands, the so-called "prostate gland" of the woman, located throughout the spongy body of the urethra. These areas are individual for each woman and can be located at the exit of the urethra, in the middle of the canal or on the neck itself. Their location is an important factor for the sensitivity of the U point. During normal sex, the U point is not touched, so it must be stimulated separately, with circular movements of the finger. Simultaneous stimulation of the G and U spots in women sometimes leads to the so-called "strip" and multiple orgasms.
There is an opinion that the main male organ is the phallus. All erogenous zones are concentrated in it. In fact, in the body of every man there is another powerful sexual tool that takes an active part in every sexual relationship. This refers to the prostate gland or, in other words, the prostate.
In an attack of passion, few people remember the presence of a prostate. And completely useless. It, as the main male sexual organ, is very sensitive to stimulation. Some sexologists put it on the same level as the female G-spot, because a competent effect on the prostate is accompanied by an unforgettable pleasure.
How to find this mysterious area on a man's body? >
- Before you start looking for the precious spot on your partner's body, ask him to do a little preparation. A man should ideally clean the intestines and empty the rectum with an enema, which will make the massage of such an intimate place more aesthetically pleasing.
- Do your best to make your partner relax and trust you completely. His inner insecurity will lead to the contraction of the sphincter and the complete failure of your sexual experiment. Find out from the man if he really wants to participate in this. Otherwise, instead of bright pleasure, he will feel only discomfort and pain.
- Cut your nails without fail. If you have long nails, do not even try to start looking for the G-spot, as this is fraught with the appearance of microtrauma in the rectum of your beloved.
- Wash your hands thoroughly, not only before, but also after you have searched for and found the precious point. Do not touch the hand that was used to search the male genital organ or genitals, and even better use disposable gloves. Thus, you will be protected from a variety of microorganisms from the partner's colon, which can lead to the development of inflammatory processes.
- Do not start looking for the prostate at the beginning of intercourse. It is better to move it to the moment when you feel the imminent onset of climax. Otherwise, you can simply ruin your partner's sexual mood and even make it uncomfortable.
- Give your man an erotic massage, starting from his head and moving smoothly to his stomach and back. Pay special attention to the buttocks. Massage your partner with soft, gentle movements.
- Have your man lie on his back. At this time, you will relax between his legs and insert your finger very delicately and carefully into his anus, not forgetting to use petroleum jelly or a special lubricant. Move forward about 4-5 cm and try to feel a swelling the size of a chestnut on the front wall of the intestine from the abdominal side.
- Alternatively, you can ask your partner to take a knee-elbow position or lie on your side, preferably the right one, and press your knees firmly into your stomach. This position will not only relieve you, but will allow a man to experience multiple orgasms. In this pose, the pelvic muscles are maximally relaxed.
A full sex life is a guarantee of good health, excellent mood, youth and family happiness. In order for both partners to get absolute pleasure from intimacy, you need to know how to find the ji point.
Stimulation of the erogenous zones enables both the man and the partner to reach orgasm.
The fact that there is a special place - point ji, they began to speak in the middle of the last century. There is still no unanimous opinion on where point g is. Women usually have no problems with determining her coordinates.
This place is located on the front wall of the vagina - from 3 to 5 cm from the entrance. What the erogenous epicenter itself looks like can be seen in a separate video. There are also photos in which a particular place looks like a small-sized bean.
To know the ji point, it is not necessary to study the video. This place is quite sensitive to touch inspection. If this area is stimulated, then there is a significant increase in size (in some women several times).
Finding an erogenous point is not difficult at all, for this you need to feel the front wall of the vagina. This area will be rougher and rougher, which is not typical of the rest of the mucosa.
The easiest way to find the g-spot is when a woman is in a state of sexual arousal. This area is less sensitive for every girl, so it should be stimulated additionally and actively. To master the practical techniques of such stimulation, you can watch the video.
When intercourse occurs, there is no stimulation of the g pole, so some women have doubts about the presence of such a place. Each of the girls has it individually. Therefore, to detect the presence of microzone ji, one of the optimal positions must be selected.
These include the following provisions:
- the partner is behind;
- the girl assumes the pose of a knight and leans back hard.
Even a close study of a video or photo is not always helpful to find the answer, how to find the ji point? This does not mean that your sex life will be less impressive.
Point ji is truly a unique place. However, for most women, the emotional rather than the physiological sensations from sex predominate. Some girls notice that they do not enjoy the stimulation of the erogenous chakra at all.
The older women are, the less important it is to use the g-factor to achieve orgasm. It should also be borne in mind that, according to sexologists, the task of finding a supererogenous point is important only for those women who cannot experience orgasm at all.
How to determine the coordinates of the ji point of a partner?
If the problem of the location of the ji zone in women can be solved using a tactile method, then the question of how to find the g-spot of a partner is not difficult at all.
Finding such a place in the male half is even easier, you don't even need a training video. An analogue of the ji point is the prostate gland.
There is such an erogenous place near the urethra from the bottom of the bladder (this can be seen in the video). To get to a man's "g-spot", you must use the anus. In practice, it looks like this: a finger is gently inserted into the anus, and a slight bulge is found on the side of the abdomen. This will be area g. It is located somewhere four to five centimeters from the entrance to the anus.
Not all men will like such unusual sexual activity of women. Some representatives of the stronger sex negatively evaluate such attempts by women to find a place for erogenous stimulation.
Another important note: the partner should not have long and sharp nails. If she managed to find the location of the g-zone, then it is better to use a special lubricant for caressing. All these actions must be performed very delicately.
If partners decide to find a unique area g, then it is advisable to use different methods. You can watch the dedicated video above.
By mutual consent, try to find the precious object called "g-spot" through touch search. For some couples, the magic g transforms intimate life, making it even richer and more colorful.
By exploring each other's bodies, lovers can achieve true pleasure!